Seth Godin’s advice on this issue is to “run your own race.” Godin continues, “the rear view mirror is one of the most effective motivational tools ever created.”
I would say that it is also one of the most seductive sources of motivation. If you listen to interviews with elite athletes– especially those who participate in individual rather than team sports– you’ll hear phrases such as: “playing my own game,” “staying focused,” or “performing at my level.” It is common for people (or athletes) to perform better with competition, however, you will be subject to your competition showing up in their best form.
Self motivation is and always will be the most important form of motivation. Driving with your eyes on the rear view mirror is exhausting. It’s easier than ever to measure your performance against others, but if it’s not helping you with your mission, stop. Read Seth’s post here.
Run your own race.